Because He Loved Them, He Waited

"So when he heard that Lazarus was sick, he stayed where he was two more days." (John 11:6)

There was a time when waiting was simply the shape of a life. A connection to the wider world had to be built each time, with sound and delay. A call came, and you did not know who it was until you picked it up. A dial turned all the way around, one number at a time, and a single mistake meant starting over. Waiting was not a failure of the system. It was the system. We have nearly lost the skill, and losing it has made us worse at prayer, because prayer still runs on the old system.

Watch what John does in this passage, because it is almost cruel in its plainness. The sisters send word: Lord, the one you love is sick. It is a good message, honest and urgent and full of faith. Then verse five says that Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus. And then verse six says, so, when he heard that Lazarus was sick, he stayed where he was two more days.

Read those verses against each other and do not rush past the hinge. So. Because he loved them, he waited. That is not the sentence any of us would have written. We would have written, because he loved them, he came at once. But it is the sentence that is there, and it means the delay was not the failure of his love. It was an expression of it. So when he waits with you, do not conclude that he does not care. The waiting itself may be the love, doing something for you that you cannot yet see.